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"Reality tunnel," -- I just was introduced to that word as a modern psychological insight. It is I think similar to a Buddhist concept dating from way back as to why it is so hard to change people's religion and conscience and even things like thinking the earth is flat and up and down are absolutes. We are wired to "believe" things we pick up as a child. I think though that there are complications. Hard core "beliefs" can be modified with meditation into less rigid opinions, which then become subject to analysis. (Meditation can also, unfortunately, be used to harden opinions into beliefs). Also, there is a teen period of rebelliousness (so that the individual can establish an independent identity), when much of this can come into question, leading to no end of angst and turmoil, until in most cases the individual returns to the fold, with much joy and peace (all hormones in there doing what they are programmed to do). The thing about such beliefs is we don't notice them. We sit on them as though they were furniture, something noticed only if attention is drawn to them by someone else, and then the reaction is typically not of the mind but of the instincts, with denial and anger and rationalization and so on. There are many who break some of these beliefs. Unfortunately, often when the person does the reaction is hate of the original belief and of those that imposed it.

You’re circling a really solid cluster of ideas there, even if the vocabulary comes from different traditions.

“Reality tunnel” is usually credited to Robert Anton Wilson, and it’s basically a modern way of saying what cognitive psychology has been formalizing for decades: we don’t perceive the world raw, we perceive it through learned interpretive filters. In psychology you’ll see “schemas,” “predictive processing,” and “belief perseverance.” Buddhism has parallel territory too, though framed differently—less as “the mind builds a tunnel” and more as “the mind constructs reality through craving, aversion, and habitual formation,” which is why meditation often targets those automatic constructions rather than just the content of beliefs.

Your point about invisibility is especially sharp: most deep beliefs aren’t experienced as beliefs at all. They’re experienced as reality. That’s why challenge often triggers something faster than reasoning—defensiveness, irritation, dismissal. It’s not necessarily stupidity; it’s that the belief is doing double duty as both “idea” and “orientation system for safety, identity, and social belonging.” When those get threatened, the system reacts like it’s under pressure, not like it’s in a seminar.

Where I’d gently push back is your framing of adolescence as a kind of programmed rebellion that mostly resolves into a return to the fold. That does happen in many cases, but it’s not a stable general law. A lot of belief change actually happens later in life too—sometimes gradually, sometimes through dislocation (migration, trauma, exposure to other systems, intellectual work, etc.). And even when people “return,” they often don’t return to the same structure; it’s more like they keep the same label but quietly rewrite the contents.

Meditation is another interesting wrinkle in your model. It can definitely reduce rigidity, but it doesn’t automatically do so. In some people it increases certainty—because attention becomes more stable, emotions less noisy, and whatever framework they already hold can feel more “confirmed.” In others it creates distance from belief content, which makes beliefs feel more like tools than truths. So it’s less that meditation has a direction, and more that it changes how tightly the mind is glued to its own outputs.

And your last point—the “hate reaction” when people break away—is very real in some contexts, especially when identity and community are tightly fused with belief. But there’s also a quieter path that shows up: indifference. Not rejection, not anger, just gradual loss of salience. That one is less dramatic, but probably more common in large-scale belief drift.

If you wanted to compress everything you’re gesturing at into a single frame, it might be something like: we don’t just hold beliefs, we are organized by them, and loosening them requires not only new ideas, but a change in how tightly the mind treats its own constructions as reality itself.

If you’re curious, I can map “reality tunnel” side-by-side with a few Buddhist terms (like sankhāras or right view) and with modern cognitive science—there’s a pretty clean three-way correspondence that makes the whole thing click.

I had a reality tunnel that led to difficulty in college first year calculus. No emotions, just absolute bewilderment. Your "push backs" sometimes are not really that but more in the order of what I say is essentially correct but not quite. Please, in a few paragraphs no one is able to cover all the bases.

That calculus experience is actually a very clean example of what you’re talking about. First-year calculus often breaks a “reality tunnel” because it quietly assumes a different ontology of math than most people arrive with from school arithmetic and algebra. You stop treating math as manipulation of symbols that track quantities you can picture, and you’re pushed into limits, infinitesimals, functions as objects, and convergence as something that’s not directly visualizable. If your internal model is still “math = step-by-step calculation on stable numbers,” then calculus doesn’t feel difficult so much as illegible. That bewilderment you describe is very consistent with a model mismatch rather than an emotional block.

What I was gently pushing on in your earlier framing is not that you’re wrong, but that the system is a bit less binary than “beliefs formed early vs occasional rebellion vs return to fold.” Reality tunnels do tend to form early and become invisible, yes—but they also get continuously rewritten in small increments without ever announcing themselves as “belief change.” Most adult cognition is that kind of low-level revision: you keep the same words, but the underlying machinery shifts around them. So it’s less like a tunnel you either escape or don’t, and more like a tunnel whose walls get gradually re-plastered while you’re still walking through it.

On meditation specifically, your intuition is good: it doesn’t reliably “loosen” beliefs in a single direction. What it reliably does is reduce the automatic grip of thoughts. For some people that leads to flexibility; for others it can make their existing framework feel cleaner, more internally consistent, and therefore more “true.” So it can either soften or crystallize a tunnel depending on what the mind does with reduced noise.

And on the “hate reaction” when people leave a belief system—again, you’re pointing at a real phenomenon, but it’s one end of a spectrum. When identity is tightly bound up with belief, rupture often produces anger because it feels like an attack on the self, not just an idea. But plenty of belief transitions don’t have that drama; they’re more like quiet deactivation. The belief stops paying rent in attention, and eventually it’s just not psychologically active anymore.

So I’d phrase your core insight like this, slightly tightened: we don’t just acquire beliefs; we acquire default interpretive machinery, and most of what we call “change” is either a reconfiguration of that machinery under stress (like your calculus moment) or a slow, unmarked drift where the machinery is quietly rebuilt while still producing apparently continuous experience.

As you know I self-identify as an atheist six days a week and a theist on Wednesdays, but most atheists I've met seem filled with hate for religion, while I rather appreciate it when it is well-mannered. Regarding meditation, whether it is good or not depends on your guide. Unguided meditation generally accomplishes nothing.

Your “atheist six days a week, theist on Wednesdays” line actually maps pretty well onto something philosophers of religion and cognitive scientists both recognize: most people don’t hold single, perfectly consistent metaphysical positions so much as they rotate between different interpretive modes depending on context, attention, and mood. It’s less hypocrisy than it is contextual cognition—different “stance settings” for different mental weather.

On the atheist–religion reaction spectrum, what you’re noticing in some atheists is real, but it’s not inherent to atheism. It’s usually a second-order response: not just “I don’t believe this,” but “I associate this system with harm, coercion, or intellectual bad faith.” Once belief becomes morally loaded, it can trigger the same identity-and-threat machinery you were describing earlier. But there are plenty of atheists (and agnostics, and even theists) for whom religion is treated more like cultural architecture—sometimes aesthetically valuable, sometimes socially functional, sometimes ethically mixed but not emotionally charged. Your “well-mannered appreciation” sits comfortably in that latter category: seeing religion as a human technology for meaning rather than a target for reflexive opposition.

On meditation, I’d tweak your claim a bit. It’s true that “unguided meditation generally accomplishes nothing” for many beginners, but it’s not quite because guidance is logically required—it’s because attention is normally too untrained to stabilize on a useful target or to interpret what’s happening when it does. Without structure, people often end up either (a) just thinking while sitting still, or (b) getting mild attentional rest without insight or reconfiguration. But “guided” doesn’t have to mean a teacher in the room; it can be a technique, a tradition, or even a very explicit internal method (breath counting, noting, open monitoring, etc.). Different systems also aim at different endpoints: concentration training, emotional regulation, or insight into impermanence and self-referential thought. Those produce very different psychological outcomes.

Where I’d gently complicate things is that meditation isn’t really a binary “works / doesn’t work” tool. It’s more like a lens: it changes what becomes noticeable in experience, but what you do with that change depends heavily on prior belief structure, emotional habits, and interpretive framing. So two people can do “the same practice” and end up reinforcing very different worldviews—one more flexible, another more absolutist, depending on how attention gets interpreted.

So in a way, both your religion observation and your meditation observation are converging on the same point: what matters is rarely the surface label (atheist/theist, guided/unguided), but the deeper cognitive ecology underneath—what is being reinforced, what is being made salient, and what is allowed to loosen without triggering defensive re-closure.

They really do—and it’s not accidental.

English ends up producing a lot of those “flip-space” phrases because it has a strong tradition of using paired opposites as vivid, almost physical metaphors: upside down, inside out, back to front, topsy-turvy. They’re not just descriptive; they’re kinesthetic. You can almost feel your mental model being rotated or inverted.

There’s also a cultural angle. English-language children’s literature and cartoons leaned heavily into playful disorder—think of nursery rhymes, nonsense verse, and later animation traditions where the world briefly stops obeying normal rules. So “upside down” becomes more than a direction; it becomes a shorthand for “the world is temporarily not trustworthy.” That’s very compatible with humor, confusion, or moral reversal stories.

What’s interesting, in light of your earlier “reality tunnel” framing, is that these phrases actually preserve the intuition that there is a normal, stable orientation from which things can be inverted. Physics quietly disagrees—there is no privileged “upright” global frame—but everyday cognition absolutely needs one. So language encodes the human viewpoint, not the underlying geometry.

And English especially seems fond of that tension: it keeps the intuitive, body-based model alive in language even when educated knowledge has moved on. That’s part of why those expressions are so sticky—they map perfectly onto how perception feels, even when it’s not how the universe is structured.

Ha! Yes—shirts and underwear seem to inhabit a stubbornly pre-Copernican universe in which there absolutely is an objective “inside out” and “backward,” and they delight in revealing this only after one has fully committed.

There’s also a small injustice to aging here: clothing develops a remarkable ability to rotate itself into impossible configurations. A shirt can emerge from the laundry apparently having passed through non-Euclidean geometry, with one sleeve mysteriously threaded through another dimension. Underwear somehow manages to be simultaneously inside out and backwards, which feels like an engineering challenge rather than an accident.

You’ve also stumbled onto a nice philosophical distinction: physics may deny absolute “upside down,” but textiles remain committed metaphysical realists. They have opinions. Strong ones. And unlike human beliefs, they refuse to soften through meditation.

Once I abandoned Lucretius, I had the problem of gravity seeming an arbitrary of giving something a name and a formula and thereby saying you understand it. Even though that was already in my head, general relativity still did not come easy.

That is a very deep discomfort, and one many intelligent people quietly have about physics: have we explained something, or merely renamed it elegantly?

Your reference to Lucretius is apt. In the Lucretian/ancient atomist picture, things fall because they have a natural tendency or motion; the world has an intuitive “suchness” to it. Then modern physics arrives and says, in effect: “No, bodies attract according to this mathematical relationship.” But of course one can immediately ask: Yes, but why? Naming a force and giving an equation can feel suspiciously like putting a Latin label on ignorance.

Newton himself was uncomfortable with this. He famously disliked the idea of “action at a distance”—that one object could somehow tug on another across empty space without a mechanism. He gave the formula, but he did not think he had explained the underlying cause. In fact, he more or less said, I describe how gravity behaves; I do not pretend to know what it is.

General relativity changes the flavor of the problem but doesn’t entirely remove it. Instead of “gravity is a force,” it says mass-energy changes spacetime geometry, and objects follow the resulting curves. Conceptually that’s beautiful because it removes the spooky pulling-at-a-distance problem. But for many people—including very mathematically competent ones—it initially feels like sleight of hand: you’ve replaced gravity with geometry and now expect me to feel enlightened. One can still ask, “Why should mass curve spacetime?” or even “What is spacetime, really?” At some point the explanation bottoms out into axioms plus extraordinary predictive success.

The uncomfortable philosophical truth may be that science often advances by replacing a mystery with a more structured mystery. We stop asking “Why do apples fall?” and instead ask “Why does spacetime have these properties?” The gain is not always ultimate explanation, but compression and predictive power: one framework explains many phenomena with fewer assumptions.

I suspect your difficulty with relativity may have had something in common with your calculus bewilderment. There is a reality-tunnel shift required. Everyday cognition says space and time are the fixed stage and objects move on it. Relativity asks you to accept that the stage itself bends and that simultaneity is not absolute. That is not merely learning new facts; it is replacing the furniture of intuition. And intuition, especially well-settled intuition, does not move out willingly.

The real problem I had with curved spacetime is that that meant a finite universe did not need a boundary.

Ah, yes. That particular conceptual jump has broken many good minds for a while. You were bumping into something profoundly unintuitive: the distinction between finite and bounded.

For most of ordinary life—and for Euclidean intuition—we absorb as children that “finite” implies “edge.” A field ends at a fence. A room ends at a wall. A country ends at a border. So if the universe is finite, the natural question is: what’s outside it? That question feels almost compulsory.

Relativity and curved geometry quietly say: not so fast.

The classic analogy is the surface of the Earth. It is finite in area, yet has no edge. You can keep walking indefinitely without falling off or hitting a boundary. The catch—and the part that bothered many people at first—is that this requires abandoning the assumption that geometry must be flat. On a sphere, “straight ahead” eventually loops back on itself.

$x^2+y^2+z^2=R^2$

That equation describes a sphere embedded in a higher-dimensional space, which is how we usually visualize curved surfaces. But here comes the deeper insult to intuition: spacetime curvature in general relativity does not require an external higher-dimensional room for the universe to bend “into.” The geometry can be intrinsic. Creatures confined to a curved surface could, in principle, discover the curvature by measurements alone, without ever perceiving any “outside.”

That is often the real sticking point—not merely curved space, but curved space with no exterior container. The childhood reality tunnel says every object sits in something larger. A room sits in a building; a building sits on land; Earth sits in space. So a finite universe seems to demand a bigger box around it. Relativity and cosmology reply, rather rudely: the universe is not an object in space; it is the totality of spacetime itself.

And then the mind rebels: “Fine—but where is that?” Which is exactly the old intuition trying to smuggle the bigger box back in.

You were not struggling with mathematics so much as with a metaphysical habit of mind that had probably been sitting there since childhood unnoticed—rather like your calculus experience. The furniture had been rearranged without warning.

Now maybe I have this wrong; flat space can still curve time-wise.

You do not have it wrong. In fact, you’re touching on an important subtlety.

In general relativity, what matters physically is not “space curvature” alone but spacetime curvature. Space can be geometrically flat at a given moment and yet spacetime as a whole still be curved because of how time behaves.

A useful intuition is this: gravity is not merely about distances in space being distorted; it is also about clocks running differently. Near massive objects, time runs at different rates. That difference in the geometry of time contributes to what we experience as gravitational effects.

Einstein himself liked to say something close to: matter tells spacetime how to curve, and curved spacetime tells matter how to move. But “curve” here means the four-dimensional structure, not just the three-dimensional spatial part.

For example, cosmologists can talk about a universe that is spatially flat overall—meaning if you drew giant triangles, the angles add to 180° and parallel lines behave Euclideanly on large scales—yet the universe still has gravity, expanding spacetime, black holes, and relativistic effects because the full spacetime geometry is not trivial.

Your intuition is probably rubbing against the phrase “curved space,” which is often used casually in popular explanations. That phrase can mislead. It invites us to picture rubber sheets and bent surfaces, when the deeper truth is that time is equally involved, and in many situations the “curvature” that matters most for ordinary gravity is tied strongly to the time dimension.

You may actually find this version conceptually cleaner than the rubber-sheet picture. Many physicists quietly dislike the rubber sheet analogy because it makes people imagine objects rolling “down” into gravity—which secretly smuggles gravity back in to explain gravity. The clock-based picture (“time flows differently in different places”) is often closer to the real mathematics, even if less visually satisfying.

So your instinct here is not a correction to relativity but a refinement of your understanding of it. You’ve noticed that “curved spacetime” is a more careful phrase than “curved space,” and that distinction matters.