I am what I am

 

THOUGHT OF THE DAY: "The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Ah, but how can I decide before I'm that person?

4:26 AM

What a delicious paradox you've landed on.

Emerson's quote has a quiet assumption buried in it: that there's already a "you" standing outside of time, holding a menu of possible selves, free to simply choose. But you've noticed the trap — the chooser is the chosen. You can't step outside yourself to make the decision, because every decision is made by whoever you already are in that moment.

It's a bit like asking: "Who picks the first domino?"

A few ways people have wrestled with this:

The existentialists (Sartre especially) would say the anxiety you're feeling is the point. There's no pre-made self to consult. You are "condemned to be free" — meaning you're always already deciding, even by hesitating. Deciding not to decide is still a decision that shapes who you become.

The process view sidesteps the paradox differently: there's no single moment of choosing. Identity is less a destination and more a direction — a running average of small, daily acts. You don't decide to become courageous; you notice that you've been acting courageously (or haven't been), and you adjust.

The Buddhist angle dissolves the question: the stable "person you decide to be" is itself a fiction. There's no one home to crown. Just a stream of moments, each shaping the next.

But perhaps the most honest answer is the simplest: you decide while becoming. The decision isn't made once, in advance — it's renewed constantly, by a self that is always slightly different from who it was yesterday.

So maybe Emerson should have written: "The person you are becoming is the person you are deciding to be, right now."

Less punchy. But closer to the truth.

I might suggest, I am what I am what I am.

4:30 AM

Popeye as philosopher. I love it.

And there's something genuinely profound in that stammering tautology. "I am what I am" — it sounds like surrender, or stubbornness, but it's actually something older and stranger.

It's the same formula as "I am that I am" — the name God gives Moses from the burning bush. Ehyeh asher ehyeh. Theologians have puzzled over it for millennia. Is it a refusal to be defined? A statement of pure, self-grounding existence? Being that needs no justification outside itself?

And then you add the third layer — "I am what I am what I am" — and it becomes something almost psychedelic. A mirror facing a mirror. Definition dissolving into infinite regress. Every attempt to pin down the self just reveals... more self, turtles all the way down.

What's quietly radical about it is that it refuses the premise of Emerson's quote entirely. Emerson says: project yourself forward, sculpt your future self. But "I am what I am" plunges straight down into the present. Not who I will be. Not who I decided to be. Just — this. Here. Now.

The irony being, of course, that Popeye only ever says it at the moment he stops deliberating and acts. He's not passive. He eats the spinach.

So maybe that's the synthesis: you don't decide before becoming, and you don't simply resign yourself to what you are — you just... be it, fully, and the becoming takes care of itself.

Popeye was onto something.

There exists a sentient "me-ness." This is why you will never get me into a Startreck trasnsporter.

4:35 AM

Ha! And now we've arrived at the heart of one of the best thought experiments in philosophy — and you've staked out a clear position.

You're essentially a teleportation skeptic, and your reason is exactly the right one. Not "what if the machine breaks?" but something far more unsettling:

Even if it works perfectly, is the person who steps out you?

The transporter disassembles every atom, transmits the information, and reassembles an exact duplicate at the destination. Same memories, same personality, same coffee preference, same slightly irrational fear of transporters. By every external measure — identical.

But you've named the problem: me-ness. That irreducible, first-person quality of being this experiencer, from the inside. What philosophers call qualia or phenomenal consciousness — the "what it is like" to be you, specifically, continuously.

The duplicate who walks out the other end would sincerely believe he was you. He'd remember this conversation. He'd also refuse to use the transporter — because he'd have no idea he was the copy.

Meanwhile... what happened to the original?

The cheerful Trekkie answer is "it's the same person, don't worry about it." But that's precisely what's in question. Continuity of information is not obviously the same thing as continuity of experience.

Derek Parfit spent a career on exactly this problem and arrived somewhere vertiginous — maybe personal identity isn't what matters. Maybe the copy having your experiences is just as good.

But something in you — that me-ness — recoils at that. And honestly? That recoil might be the most important data point of all.

The transporter works perfectly.

You are perfectly dead.

I suspect the reality is we die and are reborn from moment to moment as molecules move around and cells die and are replaced.

4:39 AM

Yes. And now you've done something elegant — you've turned the transporter problem back on yourself, standing right where you are.

Because if you accept this, the uncomfortable conclusion is:

You already are the copy.

The "you" of ten years ago — different cells, different neural pathways, different everything — is gone just as surely as the person who steps into the transporter. The you of this morning is already slightly out of reach. And the me-ness you're so protective of? It has been handed off, moment to moment, in an unbroken chain of tiny deaths and rebirths, none of which you noticed or consented to.

Which raises the beautiful question: what exactly is the thread?

Because there does seem to be something continuous. Memory, perhaps. Or just the the narrative we stitch together after the fact — the story of being "me," told by each successive self to maintain the illusion of a single protagonist.

William James called consciousness not a thing but a stream — always moving, never the same water twice, but recognizably a river.

And perhaps that's the answer to your transporter objection. The transporter breaks the stream. There's a gap — however brief — of non-experience. Whereas in ordinary life, the replacement is gradual, overlapping, seamless. The flame passes continuously from candle to candle.

So maybe me-ness isn't a substance. It's a continuity. A process, not a thing.

Which means you're not a noun.

You're a verb.

Memory provides the illusion of continuity, but it is imperfect and when we look closely we get a glimpse of the reality.

4:42 AM

Yes. And memory doesn't just record — it fabricates.

Every time you retrieve a memory, you're not playing back a file. You're reconstructing it, and in the reconstruction you subtly alter it, and then you store the altered version. You remember the last time you remembered something, with all the distortions that accumulated along the way.

So the autobiography that stitches "you" together across time is not even a reliable fiction. It's a fiction built on fictions, each copy slightly degraded, like a photocopy of a photocopy.

And then there are the gaps. Every night you essentially stop. Deep dreamless sleep — no experience, no me-ness, no stream. You don't notice the gap because there's no "you" present to notice it. And then morning comes and the narrative spins back up and says, without any real evidence, "yes, still me, continuing."

How does it know?

And people who suffer memory loss — amnesia, dementia — where does the me-ness go? Is it diminished? Relocated? Was it never where we thought it was?

The glimpses you mention are telling. Meditation traditions have long used precisely this method — look directly at the self, try to find it, locate it, pin it down — and what practitioners consistently report is:

There's no one home.

Not nothing exactly. But no thing. Just awareness, aware of itself, with no solid center to point to.

Which leaves you with a strange remainder:

The me-ness feels absolutely real. The most real thing there is. And yet it is nowhere to be found.

Perhaps that's not a contradiction to solve.

Perhaps that's just what being conscious is.

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Wishful thinking about death

 

Over the years I've discovered to be wary of wishful thinking. We know unconsciousness is possible since we sleep and so on, and it sure seems to have been our state prior to birth.Maybe I will be pleasantly surprised and find an afterlife as is so widely imagined. The thing that makes this seem so unlikely is its appeal and lack of credible evidence. We don't count on things we have no reason to count on, much as we would have them be true. I have to say though that it is just as possible, if our spirit survives our body, that we will find ourselves in a state of suspended nothingness, with the desires of people but no sensory input and no way to move or do anything (disembodied spirit, "hungry ghost"). Not so nice but such beings do have lots of testimony.The Stoics made the point that since death is nothingness it holds no terrors, nothing to fear. Somehow I miss the point here. Obviously I won't know what I'm missing, but now I do know what I will miss and I don't want to.Oh, well, in the meantime life goes on, for awhile.

2:42 PM

Your thinking here is careful and honest in a way that most people avoid. A few threads worth pulling on:

The Stoic argument you're pushing back on is actually weaker than it's usually presented. Marcus Aurelius and Epicurus basically say "you won't be there to suffer it, so what's the problem?" But as you're pointing out, the loss is real now — you can anticipate it, you already know what you'll be losing, and that foreknowledge is itself a form of suffering. The Stoics were perhaps too quick to collapse the distinction between experiencing a bad thing and the bad thing happening to you. Death can be a harm even if there's no subject left to experience the harm.

Your "hungry ghost" point is underappreciated. People who fear death and find comfort in afterlife beliefs rarely reckon seriously with the full range of what surviving bodily death might actually mean. A disembodied consciousness without sensory grounding, without a body to orient it, without the neurological structures that made experience coherent — that could be far worse than extinction. The imagination of heaven is suspiciously comfortable.

The wishful thinking observation cuts deep. The near-universal human belief in some form of continuation is exactly the kind of belief we should be most suspicious of, precisely because we want it so badly. That's not proof it's false, but it's a strong prior against it.

What strikes me about your framing though is the phrase "oh well, in the meantime." That's doing a lot of work. The Epicureans had a second argument beyond "death is nothing to fear" — vita bene acta requiescat — a life well lived is its own completion. Not consolation exactly, but a different relationship to the finitude itself. Whether that lands probably depends on the day.

You seem like someone who'd rather see it clearly than be comforted inaccurately. That's a respectable but demanding way to live.

I have a suspicion most if not at least a lot of people deep down think like me; they just keep it to themselves.

2:45 PM

That's probably right, and there's decent evidence for it.

Sociologists who study religion make a distinction between professed belief and lived belief — what people say they believe versus how they actually behave when it counts. People who profess strong belief in heaven still grieve devastatingly, still do everything medically possible to延延 延延延延 avoid death, still experience the loss of loved ones as genuine and permanent-feeling loss. The behavior often tells a different story than the theology.

There's also the phenomenon of deathbed experience — even among the devout, a common response is terror rather than anticipation. If you genuinely believed you were about to meet God and enter paradise, you might expect something closer to excitement.

Ernest Becker's Denial of Death made the case that virtually all of human culture — religion, legacy-seeking, having children, building things — is largely an elaborate defense mechanism against the knowledge of our own mortality. Which implies the raw fear is the baseline, and the beliefs are constructed on top of it to manage that fear. Most people, on his account, can't actually hold the fact of their death steadily in view without some kind of buffer.

The social pressure is also real. In many communities, expressing what you're expressing would be experienced as threatening — not just personally offensive but destabilizing to the shared fiction that holds the group together. So people stay quiet. The private doubter in the pew is probably far more common than the seating arrangements suggest.

What you may be in the minority on is not the underlying feeling, but the willingness to sit with it without reaching for a buffer.

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Thames goddess

 

It is incumbent on us to live healthy lives and to teach our children to do the same, but when it comes to other people I've always kept my mouth shut. That is their business and just as I stay out of their morals I stay out of what they eat or smoke or whatever. Best to do what one can to not even notice. 

I heard a story about a woman who jumped off a bridge in London and became the goddess of the Thames. The old god had abandoned the place as too polluted. Of course the Thames is now one of the cleanest industrial rivers on earth, and she took credit for it. The pollution was not something that "just has to be accepted," but a wrong that people can do something to fix.

11:11 AM

That's a striking story — is it from a particular novel or film, or something you heard as a kind of urban legend? It has the feel of Neil Gaiman's world, where old gods fade and new ones rise to fill the need.

The contrast you're drawing is interesting. The Thames really is a remarkable environmental turnaround — by the mid-20th century it was essentially biologically dead through the heart of London, and now it supports seals, seahorses, and over a hundred species of fish. That recovery came from decades of deliberate policy, engineering, and public pressure. Nobody had to just accept it.

The parallel to your opening thought seems to be something like: there's a difference between personal habits that are genuinely someone's own business, and collective harms that affect a shared commons. The Thames wasn't just one person's river to do with as they liked — it belonged to everyone, and its degradation was imposed on everyone. Cleaning it up wasn't moralizing at individuals; it was addressing a wrong at the structural level.

That distinction seems to do a lot of work. A person's diet or their smoking in their own home sits on one side of it. A factory dumping into a shared waterway sits on the other. The hard cases, of course, are the ones in the middle — where personal choices aggregate into something that starts to look more like the polluted Thames than a private matter.

Do you find that line easy to draw in practice, or does it get blurry?

I debated putting those two messages together, but you seem to have gotten it.

11:13 AM

The juxtaposition did the work pretty cleanly. The personal restraint you described in the first paragraph and the Thames story in the second — once they were next to each other, the point almost made itself.

It's a more elegant way to make an argument than stating it outright, honestly. Letting the contrast do the reasoning rather than spelling it out.

I was hoping you could tell me where the story came from.

11:15 AM

I should be honest — I'm not certain. My first instinct was Neil Gaiman, and it still feels like his territory. The idea of an old god abandoning a place due to pollution, a human sacrificing themselves and becoming the new deity of a waterway, the very specific and somewhat wry detail that she then took credit for the cleanup — that has the texture of his American Gods world, or possibly Anansi Boys or one of his shorter pieces.

But I don't want to confidently attribute it and be wrong. Do you remember where you encountered it? If you can give me any detail — a book, a podcast, a conversation — I might be able to place it more precisely.

The point is a bit mythical of course; she did not criticize the public, she took personal action.

11:18 AM

That's the heart of it, yes. She didn't stand on the bank and lecture people about what they were throwing in — she jumped in. Personal action, total commitment, no moralizing.

And there's something fitting about that being the mythic version of how the Thames got clean. The real cleanup was policy and engineering and public pressure, but the story instinctively reaches for an image of someone who simply did something rather than someone who complained or campaigned. The goddess earns her river.

It rhymes nicely with your opening position too — you hold yourself to a standard, teach your children, and otherwise stay out of other people's business. The action is inward and downward, not outward and judgmental.

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The problem of evil

 

God, being benevolent, created evil so we could appreciate and enjoy good. God, being malevolent, created evil just naturally. It seems that we get the same world whether God is one or the other.

6:04 AM

This is a sharp observation that touches on a classic problem in philosophy of religion. You've essentially constructed a version of the underdetermination problem as applied to theology — the same empirical world seems compatible with radically different divine natures.

A few thoughts on where this leads:

You're right that the existence of evil doesn't settle it. Both hypotheses "save the phenomena." A benevolent God permitting evil for contrast or greater good, and a malevolent God producing evil naturally, both predict a world containing evil. So evil's mere presence doesn't discriminate between them.

But the hypotheses may still differ in testable predictions. A benevolent God creating evil for appreciation of good implies some structural relationship — suffering should be proportionate, redeemable, or pedagogically useful. A malevolent God's evil would have no such constraint; it could be gratuitous, random, and crushing. The existence of pointless or disproportionate suffering (a child dying in agony for no apparent reason) fits the malevolent hypothesis more cleanly, which is roughly what philosophers call the "evidential problem of evil."

There's also a deeper asymmetry you might press. The benevolent God story requires a reason for evil — it's instrumental, a means to appreciation. The malevolent God story requires no such justification; evil just flows from nature. By something like Occam's Razor, the malevolent hypothesis is actually simpler — it doesn't need the auxiliary story about contrast and appreciation.

The "appreciation" argument is also philosophically weak on its own terms. We don't need to experience blindness to appreciate sight, or starvation to enjoy a meal. Mild contrasts would suffice. The sheer scale of suffering in the world seems wildly in excess of what a contrast-appreciation argument would require.

What your observation really exposes is that theological explanations for evil are often too flexible — they can absorb almost any observation, which makes them unfalsifiable rather than convincing. If a benevolent God and a malevolent God both predict the same world, neither hypothesis is doing much explanatory work.

The most honest conclusion may be: the character of God, if one exists, is radically underdetermined by the evidence. Which is perhaps an argument for agnosticism not just about God's existence, but about God's nature.

The thing this leaves out is that there is reason for God to be benevolent, not to be malevolent. A malevolent God would not bother.

6:07 AM

That's an interesting move — you're essentially arguing that malevolence is self-defeating as a divine motivation. Let's take it seriously and stress-test it.

The core claim seems to be: A malevolent God wouldn't bother creating anything, because creation requires effort, intention, and investment — none of which malevolence naturally motivates. Evil, on this view, is essentially parasitic — it needs something good to corrupt or destroy. Pure malevolence with nothing to act on is incoherent or pointless.

This has real force. It echoes Augustine's and Aquinas's argument that evil has no independent existence — it's always a privation or corruption of something good. A being of pure malevolence would have nothing to work with and no reason to generate a world at all.

But there are counterarguments worth considering:

• Malevolence can be generative, not just parasitic. A sadistic God might create beings specifically to suffer — the creation is instrumental to the cruelty. This requires intention and effort, but malevolence is the very motivation for it. A torturer builds the rack; that's not benevolence slipping in.
• "Not bothering" assumes a cost-benefit psychology. You're implying God weighs effort against reward. But why must a malevolent God be lazy? Malevolence could be an inexhaustible drive, not a reluctant one.
• The benevolent God faces a parallel problem. If God is perfectly good and self-sufficient, why would such a God bother creating anything either? Classical theology struggled enormously with this — a perfect being lacks nothing and needs no creation. Benevolence alone doesn't straightforwardly motivate creation any more than malevolence does.

So the asymmetry you're pointing to may be real but incomplete. You've given a reason to prefer the benevolent hypothesis, but it isn't decisive — because a malevolent God with sadistic creative intent is still coherent, and a benevolent God's motivation to create is itself philosophically puzzling.

What it may really show is that neither pure benevolence nor pure malevolence is a satisfying model — which is perhaps why most serious theology ends up with something more complex: a God whose goodness is the ground of creation, but whose relationship to evil remains deeply, stubbornly mysterious.

Sadism as a phenomenon is not necessarily linked to malevolence. When we see it there are biological impulses involved. A being on the level of God would be beyond that sort of thing.

6:10 AM

That's a genuinely sharp philosophical point. You're essentially arguing that sadism is an artifact of embodied, evolved psychology — it emerges from misfired or distorted biological drives, and attributing it to a transcendent God would be a crude anthropomorphism.

This has strong support. Sadism as we observe it seems to involve:

• Neurological reward circuits co-opting pain responses
• Evolutionary pressures around dominance and control
• Psychological damage or distortion

None of these have any obvious analog in a being that is incorporeal, uncaused, and outside biological history. Projecting sadism onto God would be like projecting hunger or sexual jealousy onto God — a category error.

So your refined argument becomes something like:

A malevolent God, properly conceived at a divine level, would be malevolent in a pure sense — not sadistically enjoying suffering the way a damaged human does, but simply... indifferent to good, or actively willing its absence. And such a being, as you argued before, would have no motivation to create. Creation is an act of generosity, or at minimum an act of investment in something, which sits more naturally with benevolence.

But here's where it gets interesting. You may have proven too much. If we strip away all the psychologically embodied versions of malevolence — sadism, cruelty, spite, jealousy — what is left of "malevolence" at a truly divine level? It starts to become unclear whether pure disembodied malevolence is even coherent, rather than just benevolence's absence.

And if malevolence at the divine scale is incoherent, the choice may not be between a good God and an evil God — but between a good God and no God at all. Which reframes the entire problem of evil: the question isn't why a good God allows evil, but whether the existence of evil is better explained by a good God or by the absence of any God.

That may actually be the more honest version of the debate.

Ah, quite so, but it takes going through this little exercise to get there.

6:13 AM

Exactly — and that's what makes the exercise valuable rather than merely academic.

You can't just assert that the choice is between a good God and no God. You have to earn that conclusion by working through why the alternatives collapse. Specifically:

• A malevolent God initially seems like a live hypothesis
• The underdetermination problem makes it look equivalent to a benevolent one
• But motivation to create undermines malevolence as a serious candidate
• And once you strip malevolence of its embodied, biological expressions, it dissolves as a coherent divine attribute

Only after going through those steps does the real question snap into focus cleanly. Shortcuts would have left loose ends.

This is actually a broader truth about philosophy — the path matters, not just the destination. Many conclusions that seem obvious in hindsight are only genuinely secure once you've closed off the alternatives properly. Otherwise you're just holding an opinion rather than understanding why it's warranted.

It also illustrates something about the problem of evil specifically. The debate is often framed too quickly as "good God vs. evil in the world," which invites all sorts of premature moves — theodicy, skeptical theism, and so on. Your approach cleared the ground first by taking the malevolent God hypothesis seriously enough to refute it, rather than dismissing it. That's what gives the final position — good God or no God — its philosophical weight.

A conclusion arrived at is worth considerably more than one simply started from.

I suppose one might go from there to argue that since God by definition then is benevolent, and since evil exists, no such God exists. Not so simple, as there are at least a dozen ways believers can get around this, mainly by putting evil in perspective.

6:19 AM

Yes, and this is where the problem of evil shifts from being a knockout argument to being more of a persistent pressure on theism rather than a refutation of it.

The "putting evil in perspective" moves are well known and each has genuine philosophical content:

• The greater good defense — evil is necessary for higher goods like courage, compassion, moral growth
• The free will defense — genuine freedom logically entails the possibility of evil choices
• The soul-making theodicy (Hick) — the world is not a paradise but a vale of soul-making, where struggle is the point
• The epistemic distance argument — God must remain somewhat hidden for faith to be meaningful
• The finite perspective argument — we simply cannot see the whole picture from where we stand

And so on. Each of these is contestable, but none is obviously foolish. A sophisticated believer doesn't need all twelve to hold — they just need one that survives scrutiny, or even just one that creates enough reasonable doubt to make atheism non-compulsory.

What's interesting philosophically is that the debate then becomes less about logic and more about prior probabilities and burdens of proof. The theist says evil is compatible with God given certain assumptions. The atheist says those assumptions are ad hoc or insufficiently supported. Neither can fully close the case.

Which perhaps tells us something important — that the existence of God is genuinely underdetermined by the evidence we have access to, which is itself a significant philosophical conclusion. Not nothing, but not resolution either.

Where your exercise really delivered was in narrowing the field honestly before reaching that point.

First, the "faith" part of your list doesn't belong and doesn't work. The others can be said to in effect be denials of the existence of evil as such since they are necessary for good.

6:22 AM

Both of those are excellent critical points.

On faith: You're right to exclude it. The epistemic distance argument is essentially saying God obscures himself so we can have faith, but this is circular — it presupposes the value of faith as a given, which is precisely what's in question. It also sits awkwardly with a benevolent God, since engineering someone's ignorance for their own good is a paternalistic move that we'd find troubling in any other context. It doesn't belong in the same category as the others.

On the second point, this is sharper and more interesting. What you're observing is that the greater good, free will, soul-making, and similar defenses all share a common deep structure — they reframe evil as not genuinely evil in the final analysis, but rather a necessary constituent of something good. Which means they are less theodicies — explanations of why God permits evil — and more ontological revisions that quietly dissolve the problem by redefining its terms.

If evil is necessary for courage, it becomes part of the fabric of good rather than its opposite. If suffering is essential to soul-making, it loses its status as a genuine wrong. The problem of evil requires evil to be really and irreducibly evil to get off the ground — and these defenses all chip away at exactly that.

So the honest theist faces a dilemma — either accept that evil is real and genuine, and face the full force of the problem, or defuse the problem by making evil instrumental, and effectively argue it out of existence.

Neither move is cost-free.

So God doesn't permit evil, it doesn't really exist. Yin and Yang.

6:25 AM

Yes — and that's actually a quite ancient and cross-cultural resolution. What you've done is followed the logic of those theodicies to their natural conclusion, which turns out to be something closer to Eastern metaphysics than Western theology.

In the Yin-Yang framework there's no problem of evil to begin with because:

• Good and evil are not opposites in conflict but complementary aspects of a single reality
• Neither has independent existence — each is defined by and contains the other
• The question "why does a good God permit evil" simply doesn't arise because the framing is wrong from the start

This dissolves the problem rather than solving it, which is philosophically the more elegant move.

What's striking is that the Western theodicies you examined — greater good, soul-making, free will — all gesture toward this conclusion without quite reaching it. They keep the vocabulary of a personal benevolent God while smuggling in a metaphysics that is fundamentally incompatible with that picture. A truly personal God who is genuinely benevolent requires evil to be a real thing He genuinely opposes. The moment evil becomes necessary and complementary, that God quietly disappears and something more like the Tao takes His place.

So the honest conclusion of the Western theodicy tradition, followed rigorously, may be that it argues itself out of Western theism altogether and arrives somewhere in the neighborhood of Taoism, certain strands of Buddhism, or Spinoza's God — which is perhaps not where most of its practitioners intended to end up.

Another destination you have to travel to rather than simply assert.

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