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You’ve put your finger on a knot that has been worried at continuously for at least two and a half millennia, and you’re right to notice that once you push past slogans, most religious answers start to look evasive rather than illuminating.
Plato’s Euthyphro dilemma really does the initial damage. If the good is good because God commands it, then morality is arbitrary: cruelty could become virtue by fiat. If God commands it because it is good, then goodness is logically prior to God, and God becomes at best a perfect moral reporter rather than the source of morality. Classical theism has tried very hard to wriggle out of this by saying “goodness is identical with God’s nature,” but that move tends to collapse back into one horn or the other once you ask what “God’s nature” actually means in practice. Either it is describable in moral terms we already understand, or it is empty.
Your focus on suffering sharpens the problem rather than dodging it. A great deal of moral reasoning, religious or secular, ultimately smuggles suffering back in even when it claims not to. Rules matter, virtues matter, intentions matter—but we care about them largely because of what they do to conscious creatures. Strip suffering away entirely and it becomes very hard to explain why anything should count as evil rather than merely “forbidden,” “disapproved,” or “out of bounds.”
Once suffering is taken seriously as morally central, the natural world becomes deeply uncomfortable for traditional theism. Evolution by natural selection is not a side feature; it is a system whose engine is differential death, pain, deprivation, and extinction. Long before humans show up, the world is already soaked in suffering. Appeals to human free will simply do not touch this, and attempts to explain animal suffering as “necessary for a greater good” often feel like verbal sleight of hand unless that greater good is made very concrete.
At that point the options narrow. One can say God is not all-powerful or not all-good in any sense we ordinarily mean by those words. One can say that suffering is illusory or morally irrelevant (which usually collapses under the weight of lived experience). One can say that our moral intuitions are radically unreliable when applied to God (which saves God at the cost of emptying moral language of content). Or one can say that God is simply not needed as an explanatory posit.
Your final question presses exactly there. If good and evil can be understood in terms of flourishing and suffering, if the mechanisms that generate both are impersonal and intelligible without reference to divine intention, then God ceases to do explanatory work. At best, God becomes a symbolic or poetic way of talking about value, hope, or gratitude; at worst, an unnecessary hypothesis layered on top of a world whose moral structure we already have to confront on its own terms.
This doesn’t prove that God does not exist, but it does suggest something important: the more seriously we take suffering as morally real, the less comfortable the picture of a morally perfect creator becomes, and the less clear it is why invoking God helps rather than hinders moral clarity. Many modern religious thinkers quietly concede this by shifting God away from being a cosmic moral engineer and toward being a companion in suffering rather than its author. That move may have existential appeal, but philosophically it is already halfway to admitting your conclusion: that whatever else God may be, God is no longer the foundation of morality itself.
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Yes — and that clarification actually sharpens the point rather than weakening it.
If the aim is not to disprove God but to disconnect God from suffering as a moral explanans, then the argument is doing exactly the work it should. Once suffering is treated as a brute feature of the world rather than as something meaningfully authored, permitted, or required by God, the traditional theodicy project quietly evaporates. There is nothing left to justify. Suffering simply is, in the same category as gravity or entropy, and moral concern arises from our response to it, not from its supposed place in a divine plan.
That leaves God, if God exists, standing elsewhere entirely. Not as the source of moral rules whose content must somehow accommodate leukemia, earthquakes, and predation, and not as a hidden optimizer trading agony for inscrutable goods. In that sense you are right to say God and suffering are necessarily not connected—at least not in any way that carries moral explanatory weight. Connecting them only creates confusion.
Your Wednesday remark is doing a lot of quiet philosophical work. It gestures toward a view in which God’s existence is not an inference from how the world works, but something more like a background commitment, posture, or rhythm—orthogonal to evolutionary biology and moral accounting. That position has a long pedigree: God as that which is, or as the condition of intelligibility, or simply as a name we give to ultimate trust. None of those require suffering to “mean” anything, and none are threatened by its ubiquity.
Once you separate those domains, a great deal of theological machinery becomes optional. Moral seriousness can be grounded in suffering and flourishing; metaphysical seriousness can be grounded elsewhere; and God, if affirmed at all, no longer has to answer for the machinery of the natural world. That doesn’t solve the problem of evil so much as decline to play a game whose rules were never coherent.
And perhaps that is the most honest outcome: to stop asking what suffering is for, and start asking only what we are going to do about it—on Wednesdays and the rest of the week alike.
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That’s a very clean way of putting it, and it lands squarely in territory that both Buddhism and a good deal of modern psychology would recognize instantly.
At bottom, suffering tracks frustration of desire. We want the body not to hurt; it hurts. We want the body to continue; it doesn’t. We want status, recognition, love, justice, or simply for things to go our way; the world declines to cooperate. Even “purely physical” suffering fits this frame once you notice that pain is not just a sensation but a signal tagged with don’t want this to continue. If it were not so tagged, it would be information, not torment.
You’re also right that the slogan “just don’t want things” is almost comically unrealistic. Wanting is not a surface habit that can be unlearned by resolve; it is wired into being an organism at all. Hunger, pain, fear, attachment to continued existence—these are not optional add‑ons. A creature with no wants would not last long enough to philosophize about it. Even the desire to be free of desire is still a desire, which is why attempts to abolish wanting tend to loop back on themselves.
What can change, though, is not the existence of desire but its structure and grip. There is a difference between “I want X” and “my well‑being depends on X.” Much suffering comes from the latter move, where the mind quietly escalates preference into necessity. Losing a job, being passed over, aging, or dying hurts not only because we want otherwise, but because we have built an identity and a future that cannot survive the loss.
Traditions that take suffering seriously rarely claim total success in eliminating it. The Buddha himself did not promise the absence of pain, illness, or death; only a loosening of the extra layer—the mental clenching, the insistence that reality must comply. That is not nothing, but it is also not a magic trick. As long as we are embodied, temporal beings, some suffering is baked in.
Seen this way, suffering doesn’t need a cosmic villain or a cosmic justification. It emerges naturally from three facts: we are conscious, we are finite, and we care. Remove any one of those and suffering collapses—but so does most of what makes a life recognizably human.
So your closing line feels exactly right. No one has ever fully succeeded in not wanting things. The realistic ambition, if there is one, is humbler: to want without being owned by wanting, to suffer without adding unnecessary layers of self‑reproach or metaphysical outrage, and to notice that some desires quietly fall away on their own when they are seen clearly enough.
That doesn’t abolish suffering. It just keeps it from metastasizing into something larger than it needs to be.
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Exactly—that’s a subtle but crucial point. Wanting happiness directly is a peculiar paradox: the more you chase it, the more it tends to slip through your fingers. Happiness is not like an object you can pick up; it’s a side effect of certain conditions being met, including balance, engagement, meaningful activity, or even the absence of strong resistance to reality. The moment desire for happiness becomes a demand, it creates friction: “I must be happy, and I am not!” That very insistence is a source of suffering.
When you “control” the desire for happiness—meaning you stop treating it as an urgent need and instead let it arise naturally—you often find it emerges organically. The backhanded effect is that by renouncing the claim to happiness, or at least by loosening the grip of that desire, you allow the conditions for happiness to operate without interference. Pain becomes tolerable, frustration less consuming, relationships smoother, and small pleasures more noticeable. In other words, happiness sneaks in from the edges rather than being summoned head-on.
It’s one of those truths that sounds paradoxical but is confirmed in psychology, meditation, and everyday experience: the more you obsessively aim at happiness, the more it flees; the more you let go of the chase, the more it shows up unexpectedly. In a way, it mirrors your earlier observation about suffering: trying to eliminate desire completely is impossible, but adjusting the quality of desire—making it less rigid, less controlling—changes the whole experience of life.
If you like, I can sketch a small diagram showing the “direct desire for happiness” vs. the “backhanded route” to happiness—it’s surprisingly visual. Do you want me to?
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Absolutely—our physicality sets hard boundaries, and those boundaries shape both our desires and the forms they take. Gravity is unforgiving: if we try to ignore it, we break bones. Hunger, pain, fatigue, and aging similarly impose constraints that our mind has to negotiate constantly. Those limits are not moral lessons—they are just brute facts of the universe—but they shape our psychology, including our desires.
That’s why fantastical desires like flying, superpowers, or immortality crop up so persistently. They are desires unconstrained by physical law, a sort of mental sandbox where we can imagine freedom from bodily limits. In most day-to-day life, they’re harmless because they remain fantasies. But they’re revealing: they show that part of our suffering and our striving comes not from material scarcity alone, but from awareness of the gaps between what our bodies can do and what our imagination wants.
Even the desire to fly—or to escape gravity metaphorically—has a kind of psychological function. It’s a way to explore freedom, control, and power safely, without the real-world consequences. And in that sense, it’s also linked to happiness: imagining, dreaming, or playing with impossible scenarios lets us momentarily step outside the strictures that otherwise dominate our lives.
It also explains the paradox you hinted at: our physical limits create certain desires, and our imagination partially resolves the tension—but only temporarily. Reality imposes constraints, and fantasy gives us relief, but the underlying gap remains. It’s one more layer of why suffering is inescapable: part of it is built right into being alive and embodied.
If you like, we can trace this connection further: how physical limits, desires, and fantasy interact to shape not just suffering, but also creativity and happiness. It’s a surprisingly consistent pattern.
