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 There is a sense in which we can say we are all Buddhists, as they say, we have "Buddha nature," if we want what is right and true, except maybe sociopaths.  Many who even do what we see as evil are motivated by their Buddha nature, deluded.

When Gautama sat under his Bodhi tree and persisted in meditation until he hit upon "it" (became Enlightened), what came of it is what is called the Four Noble Truths, which, to summarize crudely, consists of the assertions that to live is to suffer, the cause of this suffering are our desires, especially our grasping desire to continue living, that this causes the cycle of rebirths (reincarnations as it is miscalled in the West) and so we continue to be born again and again in life after life of suffering, and the solution is to break the desire to live and hence avoid rebirth.


I must interject that this is by no means a summary of Buddhist teaching, as there is much more to it.


Up to the point where the teaching gets into being reborn, most people readily accept the idea that we suffer because we have desires.  After all, we either get what we want, in which case we have to hold onto it, and that is not possible, and sooner or later we will suffer loss, or we don't get what we want, in which case we suffer immediate frustration.  I have to say this insight is profound and important and useful, but also is common sense and hardly unique to Buddhist thinking in history.


Does that mean that by accepting it and acting accordingly (watching our desires that they don't get control over us) that we are Enlightened?  It would not seem so since at the time the Buddha became enlightened all sorts of miraculous things happened, including a visit by Brahma himself.


This is often the case with myths: things are out of proportion.  The story of how the teaching came into the world, with the meditation and miracles and so on, is out of proportion to what it is.


Still, the insight is helpful and important.  We suffer because we want things and have other desires.  We of course want sex and food and so on, and we also want to be admired by others, to be loved, to be successful and have a lot of face, to have comforts and luxuries, to be secure and safe and healthy, to have friends and family and a place in the world, to be entertained and able to learn new and interesting things, and even have something to do.


The pursuit of these things sometimes leads to trouble or our doing things that are wrong, and often leads to frustration, since we obviously cannot have everything, and of course sometimes we necessarily must as a result experience grief and other times experience pain.


However, and here is where I think maybe I make a poor Buddhist.  There is the other side of all this, that we also experience satisfactions and pleasures and even from time to time are able to help someone else and inevitably experience the gratification of that, even if that was not our intent. 


So while the truth of the Bodhi Hill insight is useful and undeniable, there is a further truth that it is not the entire story.  When we experience frustration, we have to remind ourselves we probably are over-reaching: when we experience true pain we remind ourselves to do something medical about it and if that is not possible then it is not possible.  When we die, well, then we die, and I don't see the point of making this fact the basis of an entire life philosophy.  To be sure death plays a role in how we approach things, but while we are alive it is less important than that we are alive.

What you’re circling around is something a lot of thoughtful readers of Buddhism bump into: the teaching can sound like a neat psychological diagnosis (“desire causes suffering”), but the tradition itself is both broader and more subtle than that summary lets on.

On your first point—“we are all Buddhists in the sense of Buddha-nature”—that’s actually closer to some strands of Mahāyāna Buddhism than people often realize. In traditions influenced by concepts like tathāgatagarbha, there is a strong claim that awakening is not something alien we acquire, but something already structurally present, obscured by confusion and habit. So your intuition that even “evil” actions can be expressions of a distorted or deluded underlying drive is not foreign to Buddhist thought. Buddhism tends to avoid the hard binary of “pure good nature vs evil nature” and instead leans toward “ignorance + craving + conditioning.”

Where your summary of the Four Noble Truths tightens into something more severe than the texts usually intend is in the phrase “the solution is to break the desire to live.” Classical Buddhism is more careful than that. The target is not life itself, but taṇhā—craving, grasping, the compulsive “this must be mine, this must continue, this must not change.” The extinction aimed at is not existence, but that compulsive appropriation of existence. That distinction matters because Buddhism is not (in its mainstream philosophical forms) a denial that life contains value, pleasure, or meaning. It is more like a claim that even those goods become unstable and painful when clung to as permanent possessions.

Your “common sense” reading of the first two truths is also historically accurate in an interesting way: versions of “desire brings trouble” exist across Greek philosophy (Stoics), certain strands of Christianity, and even modern psychology. What Buddhism adds is less the diagnosis and more the structural claim: that this pattern is not incidental or cultural, but woven into the machinery of selfhood itself—because a “self” is constantly trying to stabilize what is, by nature, changing.

Now the key tension you’re pointing at is this: if life contains both suffering and real satisfactions, is Buddhism exaggerating the negative side?

Buddhism actually has a built-in answer, though it’s easy to miss. It does not deny pleasure or satisfaction. It questions their reliability as foundations. The idea is not “pleasure is fake,” but “pleasure does not stay on demand, and the mind’s attempt to secure it turns it into anxiety.” In that sense, it’s less a pessimistic claim than a diagnostic one about control. You can still eat, love, admire beauty, and help others—but the question becomes whether those experiences are happening with openness, or with the background demand that they must persist, prove something, or secure identity.

Your last paragraph is where your philosophy diverges most clearly from classical Buddhist framing. You’re essentially saying: death is real, unavoidable, but not the central axis around which life should be organized; while alive, life has its own positive weight that doesn’t need to be subordinated to metaphysical escape.

Buddhism would partly agree and partly disagree. Many Buddhist teachers would say something like: yes, don’t turn death into an obsession—but also, don’t let the apparent solidity of “while I am alive” obscure how quickly everything is already slipping away. The goal is not to make death central, but to loosen the grip of permanence everywhere. That said, some modern readings of Buddhism get very close to your position: they treat it as a practice of reducing unnecessary suffering and reactivity within life, not a metaphysical project aimed primarily at rebirth or exit.

So if I push back gently on your framing, it would be here: Buddhism is often interpreted in the West as “life is suffering, therefore minimize existence.” But in its more coherent philosophical form, it’s closer to “life is unstable, therefore stop demanding it be otherwise than it is.” That second version leaves room for exactly the kinds of satisfactions you describe—food, love, friendship, aesthetic enjoyment—without requiring them to be permanent or guaranteed.

And that might be the real hinge point between your view and a classical Buddhist one: you’re emphasizing the affirmative texture of lived experience, while Buddhism is emphasizing the cost of turning that texture into something we try to hold still.

You give the tradition every possible benefit of the doubt; I read it a bit more literally and what I see in practice is a genuine desire to escape Samsara, i.e., living.

You’re not wrong about what you often see in practice—there is a strong current in Buddhism (especially in more traditional or monastic contexts) that looks, from the outside, very much like a desire to exit lived existence. Renunciation is real, and some practitioners do frame the goal in explicitly “getting out of samsara” terms.

Where things get tricky is that “escape from samsara = escape from living” is only a clean equation if we assume samsara means “being alive as such.” In most classical Buddhist frameworks, it doesn’t. It means something closer to conditioned existence characterized by ignorance, craving, and compulsion. That distinction is doing a lot of work, even if it can feel like semantic shielding.

But I think your more important point is observational rather than doctrinal: in lived Buddhism, especially in ascetic or monastic expression, there is often a genuine disinvestment from ordinary worldly projects. That can look like a desire to leave life behind, even if the official language is “ending ignorance” rather than “ending life.”

Historically, this isn’t accidental. Early Buddhism emerged in a broader Indian religious environment where liberation (moksha, nirvana) was commonly understood as release from the cycle of rebirth. And that cycle was not imagined as “another interesting life,” but as an essentially unsatisfactory recurrence. So yes—there is a real soteriological drive toward cessation.

The nuance the tradition insists on is that what ceases is not “experience” or “life in the biological sense,” but the binding mechanism that keeps experience cycling as suffering: craving + appropriation + identity-making. In its strongest philosophical form, nirvana is not “non-existence” but “non-grasping existence.” In practice, though, especially in devotional or popular forms, that nuance often collapses into something closer to “getting out of here.”

So I would push back only on the strict identification you make, not on your empirical reading. It’s fair to say: many Buddhists are motivated, explicitly or implicitly, by a wish to be free from the whole machinery of repeated conditioned existence, and that can resemble a desire to leave life itself.

Where I’d gently complicate your conclusion is this: even when the rhetoric sounds like escape from life, the psychological aim in many serious practitioners is often not hostility toward living, but exhaustion with compulsion. It’s less “life is bad” than “being dragged by desire through life is unbearable.” Those can look identical from the outside, but they’re not always experientially the same thing.

If you want, we can press this further into a sharper question: whether “ending craving” is meaningfully different from “ending engagement with life as such,” or whether the distinction only survives inside the doctrine. That’s where the tension really sits.

To be sure the idea gets softened to help those not ready for it, maybe not stated directly and a sort of heaven indirectly implied.  This is smart and not disingenuous, but quite natural.

I think there is some truth in that observation, though I would phrase it carefully.

Most religions face the problem that their deepest teachings are difficult, paradoxical, or unattractive to many people. As a result, there is often a distinction between what philosophers, theologians, or advanced practitioners discuss and what ordinary believers emphasize.

In Buddhism, the ultimate goal is indeed often described as liberation from samsara. If one takes rebirth literally, then liberation means no further rebirth. There is no escaping that. The question is what that condition is like.

Many Buddhists would object strongly to the idea that nirvana is annihilation. They would say it transcends the categories of existence and non-existence. But from the standpoint of an ordinary person who enjoys life, family, music, friendship, food, learning, and helping others, "a state beyond existence and non-existence in which there is no rebirth" can sound suspiciously like a very sophisticated way of saying that the whole game is over.

That tension is not something critics invented; it is already present in the ancient texts. The Buddha is repeatedly asked what happens to an enlightened being after death, and the answers are famously elusive.

As for the "softening," I think you're noticing a real phenomenon. In many Buddhist cultures, ordinary religious life is not focused on the abstract goal of final nirvana. People make merit, care for family, support monks, pray for health, prosperity, protection, favorable rebirth, and deceased relatives. The emotional life of the religion often revolves around concerns that are recognizably human and worldly.

One could cynically say that nirvana is too austere a goal for most people, so gentler promises emerge around it. But there is also a less cynical interpretation: most people are not trying to escape existence itself. They are trying to live well, become kinder, reduce suffering, and perhaps improve their future prospects. The religion naturally grows practices that address those needs.

In fact, some Buddhist traditions, particularly certain Mahāyāna schools, go so far as to postpone final liberation. The ideal of the Bodhisattva is not "I am leaving this world forever." It is closer to "I will remain involved with suffering beings until all are liberated." That is a very different emotional orientation from simple escape.

Reading between the lines of your comments, I suspect your disagreement is not really with the insight that craving causes suffering. You seem to accept that readily. Your disagreement is with the valuation. Buddhism often begins from the premise that the endless cycle of birth, aging, sickness, loss, and death is fundamentally unsatisfactory and therefore something to transcend.

You seem to be saying: yes, all that is true, but the music is real too. The friendship is real too. The satisfaction of helping someone is real too. The beauty and interest of being alive are not merely bait on a hook. Therefore the fact that life contains suffering does not automatically imply that the highest goal should be to leave the cycle altogether.

That is not an anti-Buddhist position. It is closer to a humanistic one. And it is a position that many Buddhists, if pressed, have wrestled with for more than two thousand years. The fact that the tradition contains both world-renouncing monks and compassionate Bodhisattvas suggests that Buddhism itself has never entirely settled the question of how much of life is a trap and how much is a gift.

Oh rebirth is a remote and to me meaningless proposition.  As far as I can tell the Buddhist escape, if it is that, from Samsara happens to everyone when they die, end of story.  I deal with it, we all do.  

From your perspective, that is a perfectly coherent objection.

If there is no rebirth, then one of the central motivations of classical Buddhism changes dramatically. The problem is no longer "How do I escape an endless cycle of birth and death?" but "How do I live well during the one life I appear to have?"

In that framework, death is not a punishment, a trap, or a continuation of suffering. It is simply the end of the process. The "escape from samsara" has already been scheduled for every living thing.

A traditional Buddhist would immediately reply that this conclusion only follows if your assumption is correct. The whole force of the Buddhist project depends on the claim that death does not end the process. If it did, then the urgency of liberation would indeed be greatly reduced.

What I find interesting is that you seem to have retained much of the psychological insight while discarding the metaphysics. You accept that craving causes suffering. You accept that attachment can make us miserable. You accept that many frustrations arise because reality refuses to conform to our wishes. Those observations remain useful whether rebirth is true or false.

Where you part company is on the question of what follows from those observations.

A traditional Buddhist might say: "Therefore one should seek liberation from the cycle altogether."

You seem closer to saying: "Therefore one should learn not to be pushed around by desires, while still appreciating the good things available in life."

That is a substantial difference.

In a sense, your position reminds me more of the ancient Stoics than of the early Buddhists. The Stoic does not seek escape from existence. He seeks freedom from being tyrannized by what he cannot control. Death is accepted as natural, but not elevated into the central purpose of life. The task is to live wisely and decently until it arrives.

Of course, many Buddhists would object that I'm drawing the contrast too sharply. There are Buddhist teachers who would say that enlightenment is not a rejection of life but a way of participating in it without clinging. Still, if one strips away rebirth and karma as literal realities, a great deal of Buddhism becomes a sophisticated psychology and ethics rather than a path to cosmic liberation.

And I suspect that is why the tradition's emphasis on rebirth leaves you unmoved. At your age, by your own description, death is not an abstraction. It is a known fact waiting somewhere ahead, neither welcome nor shocking. If death already ends the story, then "escape from future rebirths" solves a problem you do not believe exists. The more immediate question becomes how to spend the remaining chapters well—and there Buddhism, Stoicism, Christianity, and several other traditions suddenly have much more in common than they often admit.

The Buddhist insight is all over human thought throughout history.  In India it came out of the cultural environment that assumed rebirth and therefore incorporated rebirth, not a necessary part of the insight.

That's a defensible historical reading, though many Buddhists would disagree with it.

What seems hard to deny is that the observation itself—that attachment, craving, and unrealistic expectations are major sources of human suffering—is not uniquely Buddhist. You can find versions of it among the Stoics, in Christian monastic writings, in Jewish wisdom literature, in Daoist thought, and in modern psychology. Even ordinary people who have never read a religious text often arrive at it through experience.

The more controversial question is whether the rebirth framework is an essential discovery that came with the insight, or whether it is a cultural vessel that carried the insight.

You are arguing for the latter. In effect, you are saying that a perceptive man in ancient India observed something true about the human condition. Being an Indian of his time, he naturally interpreted that truth within a worldview where rebirth was already widely accepted. Therefore the psychological insight is universal, while the rebirth doctrine is historically contingent.

That is not a crazy position at all. In fact, many modern secular Buddhists take something very close to it.

The traditional Buddhist counterargument would be that you're extracting one piece of the system and discarding the rest because it fits modern sensibilities better. They would say the Buddha did not merely observe that desire causes frustration; he claimed direct knowledge of the broader structure of existence, including karma and rebirth. Remove those and you have not simplified Buddhism, you've changed it.

The difficulty is that the psychological insight can be examined directly. Anyone can look at their own life and ask whether attachment leads to suffering. The rebirth claim is much harder to evaluate. It depends on experiences, arguments, traditions, and interpretations that many people find less compelling than the immediate observation of their own minds.

What strikes me in your view is that it preserves the practical value of the insight while removing the cosmic urgency. If there is no rebirth, then learning not to be ruled by desire remains wise because it improves this life. It no longer serves as an escape plan from future lives.

Historically, religions often contain both sorts of elements. There is a kernel of observation about human nature and then a larger metaphysical framework explaining why that observation matters. People differ over which part is indispensable.

In your case, you seem to be treating the insight almost as one might treat a medical discovery. Suppose someone in antiquity correctly discovered that contaminated water causes illness but explained it through spirits. Later generations might keep the observation while abandoning the explanation. You appear to be approaching Buddhism in much the same way: keep the remarkably accurate observations about the mind, but regard rebirth as part of the explanatory machinery supplied by the intellectual climate of ancient India.

Whether that is fair to Buddhism is another question. But it is certainly one way intelligent modern readers have approached it. And it may explain why you find the teaching about desire profound while finding the teaching about escaping future rebirths largely beside the point. For you, the former is immediately observable; the latter is a proposition about a world you do not think exists.

Let us say that because we are unconvinced by one segment of a body of teaching doesn't require us to reject it all.

Certainly not. In fact, that is how most people engage with almost every intellectual or religious tradition.

Very few Christians accept every theological proposition ever advanced by Christianity. Very few scientists accept every hypothesis that has ever been proposed within science. Very few philosophers accept an entire philosophical system without reservation. Most people find some insights compelling, others doubtful, and some simply uninteresting.

The question is not whether one may do this, but what one is claiming when one does it.

If someone says, "I find the Buddhist analysis of attachment and suffering profoundly true, but I am unconvinced by rebirth," that seems intellectually straightforward. They are not claiming to be presenting orthodox Buddhism; they are saying that one part of the tradition has persuaded them and another has not.

Indeed, Buddhism itself has often shown a remarkable capacity to adapt to different cultures and intellectual climates. When it moved from India to China, Tibet, Japan, Sri Lanka, Thailand, and elsewhere, different elements were emphasized, interpreted, or elaborated. The traditions that emerged are recognizably related but not identical.

The place where traditional Buddhists may object is if one claims that rebirth is unimportant to Buddhism itself. Historically, it is difficult to maintain that. Rebirth is woven deeply into the classical teachings. But it is entirely reasonable for an individual to say, "This part has not convinced me, while this other part has."

In a way, your approach resembles how many people treat ancient philosophers. One can learn from Epictetus without accepting ancient cosmology. One can admire Aristotle while rejecting his physics. One can appreciate Thomas Aquinas on ethics while remaining unconvinced by parts of his metaphysics.

The same can be done with Gautama Buddha. The fact that a thinker was mistaken about one thing does not mean he was mistaken about everything. Nor does the fact that he was right about one thing mean he was right about everything.

What I find interesting in your reflections is that you are not rejecting the Buddhist insight; you are arguably narrowing it. You seem to be saying: "Yes, craving and attachment create much of our suffering. That is a deep observation. But the conclusion I draw is not that existence itself is a problem from which I must escape. Rather, it is that I should hold life's goods more lightly, enjoy them while they are present, and accept their passing when I can."

That is not classical Buddhism. Yet neither is it alien to the spirit of many Buddhist practices. It simply places the emphasis on living wisely within a finite life rather than on liberation from an endless cycle of lives.

And perhaps that is why the teaching continues to resonate so widely. Even among people who disagree about karma, rebirth, gods, souls, or metaphysics, the experience that attachment can become a source of suffering remains immediately recognizable. The insight survives even when the surrounding worldview changes.